Are You Giving Your Favorite Employee Too Much Power? Worker Favoritism

You respect his or her advice, enjoy talking with him or her about workplace challenges, and often use the favored employee to assist you with a number of projects.  However, he or she is not a favorite among other leaders or workers and is not experienced enough to do certain things.  Besides, once superiors find out there is evidence of worker favoritism you or someone else just might be out of a job.  

There may have already been some employees who have warned you about favoring this person, but you don’t see what you could be doing that might be creating some tension at the office.  A moment of self-reflection and a few changes could bring your employees’ concerns to a halt.

One.  Have you put the so-called favorite employee in charge of something that he or she is not equipped or experienced enough to handle?

You may have failed to inform others what your plans are in detail.  Therefore, they wonder what might be going on that you would put someone inexperienced in charge.

Two.  Have you ever asked the favored employee to spy, lie, or do other things that caused your least favored team members discomfort?

If so, there just might be a bit of cocky confidence exuding from that favorite employee which is leaving people feeling sore.  Don't be surprised when the people rise up and want to throw your favorite over the boat or out the door.

Three.  Have you found projects for this person to do that has over-step boundaries in other departments?

Making this person feel like he or she is more superior than others was your first mistake and now he or she feels like one is the head of everyone and everything.  In time, the individual will be dictating you too!

Four.  Have you let this person come in late, leave early or take days off whenever he or she wanted?

Well that's just not fair.  No matter the reason, workers are watching and they ain't happy.  What are you going to do about this blatant favoritism?  Many leaders lost great team members over little things like that.  Favoritism creates division if you haven't noticed by now.

Five.  Do you find it difficult to explain your favorable actions toward the worker to other employees?

Business and pleasure just don't mix.  Employees figure out there is more going on than meets the eye why else are you doing so much for a single individual and so little for a group, huh?

The more you give to a person, like a spoiled child, the more they will want.  Are you prepared for the backlash when you no longer favor this worker?  Something to think about.

Nicholl McGuire